
The Days When I Don’t Exist
2003

1987
Director
Peter Del Monte
Runtime
98 minutes
Average Rating
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Giulia, an American woman living in Italy, becomes depressed and traumatized after her husband Paolo is killed in a car accident on their wedding day. Six years later, Giulia inexplicably finds herself sliding in time between two different worlds where in one she is still struggling with her grief over Paolo's death, and in the other world she is married to Paolo who's alive and well with their five year old son, where Giulia is having an affair with a British gentleman named Daniel, in which the frequent supernatural sliding between these two worlds threaten to drive Giulia crazy when she begins having difficulty in telling them apart and learning which world she is currently living in. (First movie filmed with Sony HDVS camera, in High Definition.)
Overall Score
Fair
Category Breakdown
LGBTQ+ Representation
The film explores shifting truths and the fluidity of existence. While no explicit non-cisnormative identities are confirmed, the narrative's instability challenges traditional social certainties.
Gender Representation
The story centers on a female protagonist's internal struggle and agency. It subverts traditional hierarchies by prioritizing her psychological perception over her roles as a wife or mother.
Racial & Ethnic Diversity
The production appears to focus on a localized, personal tragedy. There is no evidence of a diverse or non-Anglo-Saxon majority cast within the narrative.
Religious & Cultural Diversity
The film deconstructs the idealized Western family structure through themes of grief and betrayal. It utilizes postmodern storytelling to disrupt the idea of a singular, objective truth.
Disability Representation
The protagonist's struggle to distinguish truth from illusion touches upon mental health. It remains unclear if this is portrayed with agency or serves as a plot device.
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AI Analysis
Peter Del Monte’s drama succeeds in centering a woman's subjective experience, moving beyond the passive roles often assigned to grieving female characters in traditional cinema. The dual-reality framework provides a conceptual space that challenges social and psychological stability. However, the film lacks explicit demographic diversity. The narrative focuses on a localized tragedy, offering little evidence of multiculturalism or intersectional representation beyond the protagonist's internal state. Ultimately, the film's strength lies in its thematic deconstruction of the nuclear family and objective reality, even if it lacks visible representation of diverse identities.

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