
Once We Were Good for You
2021

Representation Score
Good
2017
Director
Alen Drljević
Runtime
98 minutes
Average Rating
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Men Don't Cry offers a sophisticated deconstruction of Balkan masculinity and the psychological wreckage of the Yugoslav Wars. It avoids heroic clichés, choosing instead to examine how systemic violence dismantles social hierarchies and traditional identities. The film excels at portraying the fragility of the male archetype, showing how trauma renders traditional roles of strength and stoicism obsolete. However, the film's intense focus on a hyper-masculine veteran environment results in a lack of LGBTQ+ visibility. The narrative's preoccupation with combatant identities leaves little room for queer perspectives.
Category Breakdown
The film focuses heavily on a hyper-masculine environment of former combatants. There is no explicit depiction of LGBTQ+ identities or stories that challenge the assumption that everyone is straight or cisgender.
The narrative challenges the idea that men are always strong and competent by portraying them as emotionally volatile and fragile. It also critiques gender hierarchies by showing the struggle of men who lose their roles as providers.
The cast is ethnically homogeneous, reflecting the specific Balkan geopolitical context. Diversity emerges through different ethnic identities navigating conflicting national interpretations of a shared, violent history.
The film explores the breakdown of traditional family units and social order. It prioritizes moral relativism and examines how systemic trauma impacts cultural and institutional stability.
While physical disabilities are not the focus, the film centers on the invisible disability of PTSD. Psychological instability and trauma serve as the central drivers of the narrative.
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Limited or Absent
Official Synopsis
The armed conflicts of the 1990s not only visibly destroyed the land of the former Yugoslavia, but also left the deepest wounds in the memory of each of its belligerent nations. There are as many different interpretations of that bleak past as there are countries affected. It is therefore hard to expect absolute harmony when, less than two decades since the war ended, a diverse group of veterans gathers at a remote mountain hotel for a therapy session over several days. On the contrary, such a dangerously volatile situation can suddenly ignite by just one thoughtless word, or a seemingly dirty look. That’s because the former soldiers, obstinately holding on to their fundamental masculinity and their prejudices, refusing to expose the inhumanity of the atrocities perpetrated. However, this quietness is just about to be broken and hidden emotions are to be faced.

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